Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Facing Setbacks Head On!

Are You Facing a Setback?

Setbacks are a part of life, ans definitely part of the special events industry. We can have a great month, then a not so great month, and cancellations happen so quickly it can make our head spin. The trick is to keep your attitude positive, get up when we fall, and learn the lessons from the rejections we are faced with. Did you ever notice that if you don't take time to learn the lessons, that the same type of problem keeps resurfacing in your life? Hmmm. . . what does that tell you?! The next time you’re facing a setback, keep in mind these stories about people who used a setback as a set-up for a comeback:

Lucille Ball: She began studying to become an actress in 1927 and was told by the head instructor of the John Murray Anderson Drama School, “Try any other pro­fession. Any other profession.”

Clint Eastwood and Burt Reynolds: In 1959, a Universal Pictures executive dismissed them at the same meeting with the following statements. To Burt Reynolds: “You have no talent.” To Clint Eastwood: “You have a chip on your tooth, your Adam’s apple sticks out too far, and you talk too slow.”

Alexander Graham Bell: When he invented the tele­phone in 1876, it didn’t ring off the hook with calls from potential backers. After making a demonstra­tion call, President Rutherford Hayes said, “That’s an amazing invention, but who would ever want to use one of them?”

Chester Carlson: In the 1940s, this young inventor took his idea to 20 corporations, including some of the biggest in the country. They all turned him down. In 1947 – after seven long years of rejections – he finally got a tiny company in Rochester, NY, the Haloid Company, to purchase the rights to his electrostatic paper-copying process. Haloid became Xerox corpora­tion, and both it and Carlson became very rich.

Abraham Lincoln: He entered the Blackhawk War (1831-1832) as a captain. By the end of the war, he had been demot­ed to the rank of private.

J.K. Rowling: Author of the Harry Potter series, Joanne was an aspiring writer and single mother living on welfare with her young daughter in an unheated, mice-infested flat. Her first book was rejected by 12 publishers before the world met Harry Potter in 1997.

And then there was the young man who submitted a paper to his Yale University management professor, and got this response: “The concept is interesting and well-formed, but in order to earn better than a ‘C,’ the idea must be feasible.” The young man was Fred Smith, his paper proposed reliable overnight delivery service, and Fred went on to found FedEx Corp.

Failure is not falling down, but staying down! So get up, learn the lesson, change your behavior and say "thank you" for another chance!